In response to my previous post, this is what I did:
1. I calmed down, whilst breathing slowly on the phone
2. I told the guy I would think about it and be in touch through the Shadchan
3. As 'David' commented-I did what he said (well just about-anyway), I didn't call the Shadchan back. I had to 'calm down' and wait for the immediate anger to subside before I actually called her and tell her what happened.
4. A few days later the Shadchan had called to 'follow up' and that's when I told her=NEVER AGAIN!