Friday, August 24, 2012

Poll-What do YOU think are good Reasons to Say No

Would like to hear everyone's opinion on what they personally feel is a good reason to say 'no' to a Shidduch suggestion.
Looking forward to your comments.


  1. Looks, significantly out of age range, totally different religious background.

    I am a guy.

  2. Sometimes everything seemingly adds up on paper, but even that is not always enough. The gauge is different for everyone.

  3. Cigarette smokers should be rejected; they are not ready for marriage or parenthood, regardless of how many good qualities they have.

    DO NOT date a man who plans to poison his own wife and children with deadly second-hand cigarette smoke!

  4. I agree that second hand smoke/smoking is deadly,but so is your comment!!!!!!IE(there are lots of dangerous or harmful habits that people have(for example if someone is a really negative person they could influence their kids into low self esteem etc.)and if everyone knew each of their potential spouses negative habits /or traits and they listned to your advice NO ONE would get married becouse no one person is perfect./// PS: under no circumstance do i advocate smoking in any form as anything less then something deadly to the smoker and others around them.

  5. someone who is dishonest, has alot of gaava , someone who is unappreciative, someone who drinks constantly, someone who speeds and thinks he can go against safety rules.He is putting his family in danger.someone who is his own rebbi meaning he doesn`t ask a rebbi advice he just decided what to do because it says asai lecha rav for a reason