Sunday, April 11, 2010

who makes "The Rules"?

Recently whilst talking to a friend of mine, she mentioned her brother went out with a girl and got engaged to her after (only!) 3 dates.
They are not Chassidish or Yeshivish or any extreme-just regular, in between, average kinda people.
The reason: The girl was told by her seminary that after 3 dates you get engaged!!!
WHO MAKES these rules?!


  1. Wow...3 dates. That's called barely knowing an individual.

  2. Where are this girl's parents to say, "I paid the seminary a ton of money for you to get married to a stranger?"

    Why are adults (and I mean real adults, not children masquerading as adults) to reign in their offspring? Who's the ones with experience, who know how the world works?