I hope this is only a joke.
~Why are you so against anything I say or do? What did I ever do to you?~:)
My New Hashkafah of Shidduchim :-)My hashkafah of shidduchim is thanking and praising HASHEM always :-) Even when my dating experiences are far from pleasant, I realize that HASHEM is guiding my life with His infinite wisdom and abundant love, and exact precision that only He is capable of :-) HASHEM always knows what is truly good for me, even when I do not :-)Often what I need most is atonement and humility, so G_d gives me those precious things through unpleasant dating experiences :-)I now realize that I must always thank HASHEM for ALL of my dating experiences, because even the worst dates are for my eternal benefit, because they provide me with precious atonement and humility :-)Tractate Avot teaches that the reward for a good deed is proportionate to its difficulty; by giving me difficult dating experiences, HASHEM is providing me with greater reward for Olam HaBa, in addition to precious atonement and humility :-)G_d loves me even more than I love myself, and He would never give me an unpleasant dating experience unless it was for my eternal benefit in both Olam HaZeh and Olam HaBa :-) THANK YOU HASHEM!!!! Thank you for all my dating experiences, whether pleasant or unpleasant or mediocre :-)You are always guiding me with endless wisdom and love; You always help me and give me everything I need :-)I regret all the times I complained; instead of complaining, I should have been busy thanking You. THANK YOU HASHEM!!!!