While reading my good friend- MM's blog the other day, it really got me thinking.
When people ask me what kinda guy I'm looking for I say 'someone NORMAL'. and yes, while I know that "Normal" is all relative, I realized that the label "Frum" is relative as well.
I hope that people who know me well enough, know what type of "frum" I mean. I always thought that Frum meant the same to all, but after being enlightened by MM's blog entry, I sorta got a bit worried. I mean, I go out with "Frum" boys all the time. Sometimes it doesn't last more than 1 date, other times, it goes on for a few dates. How do I know if a guy is the type of frum guy, who 'walks the walk' but doesn't talk the talk (aka 'wears peyos and a black hat but has the pix of shikshes on his lap and takes off the yarmulke and eats treif!).
So, my fellow readers, I'd like to take a consensus and ask you how you would define the word 'Frum' according to YOU.
If you feel the need to explain the reasoning of your definition, feel free. But I'm just curious as how people define 'frum', other than myself.
Feel free to be blunt!