Taking a poll here from all men (or married wives of these men) to find out what men would say they appreciate most of women.
Being a single, I would like to know, and I know there is no ONE general response, but I would really like to know what specific attribute or physicality men appreciate most of women.
Let's put it this way: if all us single girls were to spend money on 'one specific thing' that our husband would totally appreciate-what would that 'one specific thing be'? e.g. makeup to make our faces more appealing, a good hairdresser, personal trainer to make sure we are fit, fashionable clothing/shoes, waxing, working on our middos, doing more chessed, etc.
The list if endless. Please feel free to be blunt and honest.
Being a woman that has been married for over 7 years, I can't tell you about all men but I can tell you about my husband. He appreciates when I do things for him like make his favorite food, do his laundry, give him a massage, etc. He is not into looks so he doesn't care about my makeup or hair or clothes. He would rather I look messy when he comes home but that I serve him dinner, drinks, and dessert that he can just relax when he gets home instead of doing things for himself. I really think that every single man is different and there is no way to find "one specific thing" that works for all men.
ReplyDeleteAs Frayda said, that is a very subjective question. You’re also assuming that you can and should change yourself to meet the desires of others, which is an entirely different discussion. Some would argue that one should not change anything. Nonetheless, to answer your original question, I would say the two tying attributes that I most appreciate in my wife are kindness and intelligence.
ReplyDeleteFrayda & SiBaW, thanks. SiBaW: no, I'm not trying to CHANGE, I like the way I am and hope that the person I marry will as well, like me for ME. I'm just wondering what I can work on in the meantime, or what would take priority. Therefore I'm asking for suggestions and will take each into consideration :)
ReplyDeletebecause we are discussing something that can be purchased, and not character traits like the previous comments mentioned, I think first is whatever exercise equipment or training to be healthy, happy, and thin. Second would be braces and teeth whitening because a nice smile is very important.
ReplyDeleteas a newly married man, the best thing my wife could do for me is just to say thank you and make me feel needed and appreciated. I don't want to feel like I'm just a sperm donor and nothing else. Just say thank you or write a short note.
ReplyDeleteIt's something money cannot buy - it's called intelligence, smart women are super sexy and women who can think for themselves and live independently are super cool.
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