If you were 'redd' a Shidduch and the only likelihood of you being able to travel to meet in the next 2 weeks was, if you took the long way (car, bus, van) and because you will be spending most of your time driving there and back, only have 1 whole day to date them-do you think that's fair enough for the person you will be dating and fair to yourself? Especially since the 'given' is that when you travel from out of town, it's a 2 date thing (unless something goes awfully wrong). But really, its more like you're spending more than half the time traveling and therefore you only have one full day to date.
what would you do?
I'd take a deep breath.
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