tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post7844778825171742159..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: Eye CandySingle on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-37949789944989973062010-07-01T17:05:58.124-04:002010-07-01T17:05:58.124-04:00The best thing to do is go around the system. Unfo...The best thing to do is go around the system. Unfortunately if you approach the shadchanim yourself they so won't take you seriously Instead try it this way, which is a little hard, find a good married friend, or family you're close to if it's possible and ask them if they can do some interviews for you and get in between you and the shadchanim. <br /><br />I tried the traditional system and after two failed dates that cost me a plane ticket to New York and a good year of being told all of my negative qualities that weren't going to attract a mate, gave up and changed my methods up. It worked too. The next guy I dated was my husband!<br /><br />Good Luck!Devorah Leah Leopoldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01082516151481003340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-2201387123767304602010-06-15T12:09:34.668-04:002010-06-15T12:09:34.668-04:00The objections weren't toward your curiosity, ...The objections weren't toward your curiosity, it was toward you seemingly serious statement, "The good ones are all taken," based on sight alone. <br /><br />We all drool from time to time. We get curious. But I don't make a good-looking stranger into the bestest. He is merely good-looking. <br /><br />I sincerely hope that not all guys are sifting through insane paperwork before a date. While your anecdote is certainly frightening, it hopefully applied only to her.Datanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-25806138802535129162010-06-14T23:39:02.370-04:002010-06-14T23:39:02.370-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.BJGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17284005539217450744noreply@blogger.com