tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post7356515603859228261..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: Can Girls Speak Up?Single on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-21546131038492835852013-03-24T00:11:32.175-04:002013-03-24T00:11:32.175-04:00Talkative/immodest.
I think that's what it b...Talkative/immodest. <br /><br />I think that's what it boils down too. A girl that will bandy words with the opposite sex, is often seen as immodest. I can chat the ear off a donkey with my husband, but that is not a trait that I would share with other men, or boys, particularly when I was single. Devorah Leah Leopoldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01082516151481003340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-19621080035205428112013-03-19T23:14:46.555-04:002013-03-19T23:14:46.555-04:00Mishlei, chapter 10, verse 19:
Where there is an ...<b><i>Mishlei</i>, chapter 10, verse 19:</b><br /><br />Where there is an abundance of words, <br />sin does not cease; <br />but he who withholds his lips is wise.<br /><br />:טי קוספ ,י קרפ ,ילשמ ,ך“נת<br />,עשפ לדחי אל ,םירבד ברב<br />.ליכשמ ויתפש ךשוחו Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-65562613360768198942013-03-19T23:10:29.851-04:002013-03-19T23:10:29.851-04:00Shevet Mussar, Chapter 24, paragraph 12:
"Th...<b><i>Shevet Mussar</i>, Chapter 24, paragraph 12: </b><br />"The wife [who wants her husband to love her] must not be too talkative, because too much talk brings her to reveal secrets that should be only between her and her husband."Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-50198688000085134662013-03-19T23:08:33.558-04:002013-03-19T23:08:33.558-04:00Shevet Mussar, Chapter 24, paragraph 9:
"A wi...<b><i>Shevet Mussar</i>, Chapter 24, paragraph 9:</b><br />"A wife should not talk too much in the presence of her husband."<br />Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-14061613903373227552013-03-19T23:05:50.115-04:002013-03-19T23:05:50.115-04:00Babylonian Talmud, tractate Nedarim,
page 21A, fi...<b>Babylonian Talmud, tractate <i>Nedarim</i>, <br />page 21A, first line on page:</b><br /><br />The righteous say little and do much. <br /><br />.הרבה ועושין מעט אומרים צדיקיםMr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-56259479448988884792013-03-19T09:52:25.743-04:002013-03-19T09:52:25.743-04:00Mammelah sheinah, the biggest bigmouth in my class...Mammelah sheinah, the biggest bigmouth in my class (and I mean the girl who would call a navi if she couldn't remember his name "What's-his-face") married "on time." I highly doubt she was a demure miss on the date itself, either. <br /><br />I also like to talk. I like to have a conversation. And if a guy can't handle it then he is more than welcome to baby his ego elsewhere. Keep in mind you only have your brother's perspective on the matter, and from personal experience brothers are not the best source for accurate data. <br /><br />I have noticed that quiet fellows who have trouble getting out of their shells prefer chatty, outgoing girls; sometimes they even request them. <br /><br />As for our single state, I choose not to pin it on a single, innocent trait. We just have to wait a bit for something really great. Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-41666462109489225582013-03-19T05:56:21.962-04:002013-03-19T05:56:21.962-04:00You say you are not the "typical" girl.
...You say you are not the "typical" girl.<br /><br />That is an easy thing to say, but it means nothing, because you cannot define what's "typical" and what's not. Just as two faces are different, all people, similarly, are different. This is of course obvious, yet needs to be repeated because, as you show, you think there are groups that are "typical" as opposed to another "atypical" circle of people.<br /><br />That just ain't the way it is, young lady. Your "own personality" you sure have, but every inner city girl also has that very same "own personality". <br /><br />Need proof? When's the last time you refused a date with a young man just because you found out he comes from "Brooklyn"?in the vanguardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11796434751654291581noreply@blogger.com