tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post7077030652886654829..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: Displaying AffectionSingle on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-79669469101699028182013-07-18T20:23:20.484-04:002013-07-18T20:23:20.484-04:00While kissing at a table is rude or excessive PDA,...While kissing at a table is rude or excessive PDA, I think it's nice for a couple to lightly run a hand up their spouse's back or arm, I don't like the idea of couples having to coldly sit 6 inches away from each other in public and not touch each other at all, even on the hand. I have sat at frum tables where young couples would sit with the husbands arm slung casually over his wifes shoulders, and I like it, it shows there is a spark that withstands the difficulties of keeping a household together with finances, children etc that makes marriage not just a practical partnership. When Im around frum people, all I ever see is exhausted mothers chasing around young children and quiet husbands who barely speak to their wives in public,,,, it would be kinda nice to see everyone get a little more laid back with being so stringent ! =) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-18590881225763145802013-07-08T19:51:05.280-04:002013-07-08T19:51:05.280-04:00It is even more common during Shabbos meals, when ...It is even more common during Shabbos meals, when wine is present, and aides to their affections.Wondering Mindshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01674669856017394565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-17096204803548057012013-07-08T12:04:10.474-04:002013-07-08T12:04:10.474-04:00It's a bit rude for couples to do this so publ...It's a bit rude for couples to do this so publicly - it's very self-centered, whether or not their "audience" is single. But isn't it adorable when you see an older couple taking a walk holding hands (frum or not)? Since I'm on my way to "older couplehood", I'd hate to think that holding hands is being rude.tesyaanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-49905166707128146682013-07-07T22:58:44.994-04:002013-07-07T22:58:44.994-04:00Couples who publicly display affection are inconsi...Couples who publicly display affection are inconsiderate to singles.<br /><br />PS: I invite Shidduch Scene to join my web site for quick Torah quotes in English:<br />http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.com