tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post6505167283326200439..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: When Family WORKSSingle on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-66054517859175387872012-06-18T19:14:56.716-04:002012-06-18T19:14:56.716-04:00FFBs should thank HASHEM every day for their Torah...FFBs should thank <i>HASHEM</i> every day for their Torah-observant fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, cousins, nephews, nieces, etc, etc.<br /><br />All of them are very great benefits that should be appreciated, not taken for granted.Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-9595262484812902602012-06-16T23:39:57.282-04:002012-06-16T23:39:57.282-04:00i agree with ZP .ur uncle cant say what type of pe...i agree with ZP .ur uncle cant say what type of person u will be attracted to and if he is really for u or not unless he has a really good reason that u agree with, because i know someone that was asked if a girl was good for her brother and she said no but her brother decided to try anyway and they got married!!!,so basically ur uncle is not u and u just never know.!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-81484467776227848312012-06-14T22:02:49.827-04:002012-06-14T22:02:49.827-04:00It is great that you got to call your uncle but I ...It is great that you got to call your uncle but I do think that sometimes you can and should ask "Why?" They don't have to always answer it, but perhaps there is something that they think about the person or you that is incorrect. <br /><br />I'll explain why I'm saying this. I was somewhere for Shabbos and the hostess told me how her niece is getting married to her other brother's best friends's son. Meaning the families really know each other. But why wasn't it suggested? The uncle didn't think that he was enough into "kiruv". So he never suggested it and when they called him to know if he thought it was a good idea, he said no. She still went out with him and now they are getting married. <br /><br />So I'm not saying that this is that and I'm sure that your uncle only wants what is best for you and if his answer was "NO!" there must be a reason. But I think it is good to, if the person can say, understand why they do not think it is a good idea.Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11988396893369485100noreply@blogger.com