tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post5926594198986777134..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: Pre-Pesach Dating?Single on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-52304488353920044362013-03-18T23:09:19.187-04:002013-03-18T23:09:19.187-04:00PL-I'm laughing at your comment=my mom would d...PL-I'm laughing at your comment=my mom would do EXACTLY the same thing=NOTHING stands in the way of a Shidduch. Think it's a Hungarian thing?Single on the Scenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-84886970818680097432013-03-15T16:28:18.681-04:002013-03-15T16:28:18.681-04:00One challenge of the Jewish lifestyle is that ther...One challenge of the Jewish lifestyle is that there are many days every year that are very hard for dating or a wedding: from the last week of <i>Elul</i> to the last week of <i>Tishrei</i>, from the week before Purim until the week after Passover, the Three Weeks, <i>Shavuot</i>, etc, etc, etc. By the way, centuries ago there were great Rabbis who permitted weddings during <i>Chol HaMoed</i>.Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-65908954759849768242013-03-15T11:31:13.050-04:002013-03-15T11:31:13.050-04:00@FG: Haha! I would, or, my parents (read, mother),...@FG: Haha! I would, or, my parents (read, mother), would make me, but I don't live at home. I'm usually home in time for bedikah though, so I'm given a floor to address.<br /><br />Flying away a week before Pesach? I can't see myself asking a girl to do that for me. That seems very unrealistic and impractical. <br /><br />Then again, it depends on the circumstances and the way you date. If you're more likely to get engaged after 7-9 dates as opposed to 2-3 months and the guy's learning in Israel then it's different than if you're in one place in America and he's somewhere else. Lost and Foundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15274876739284480513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-63439675826131993742013-03-15T09:50:06.239-04:002013-03-15T09:50:06.239-04:00(Head scratch) I'm not sure.
A guy should be...(Head scratch) I'm not sure. <br /><br />A guy should be understanding that a week before Pesach you would be busy, and not only that since you have to take off from work for Pesach itself, can you really be out the week before as well? <br /><br />But then, yes, marriage does come first, and in my mother's case she wouldn't care if it was erev erev; she'd put me on a plane. How does you mother feel about it? I'm guessing she'd also throw you out of the house for a date. Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-65005879073266148362013-03-14T21:54:57.598-04:002013-03-14T21:54:57.598-04:00No, you're right. Guys don't help :)No, you're right. Guys don't help :)FrumGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13698026647411592329noreply@blogger.com