tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post5728085820798715914..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: When they're NOT Welcome!Single on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-6077898163895769472011-04-04T12:52:56.794-04:002011-04-04T12:52:56.794-04:00Anything said here will irrevocably change the sit...Anything said here will irrevocably change the situation, while, hopefully, the friendship will last a lifetime. Very often I'm willing to swallow the bad end of the deal because hurting someone else is not an option - it won't help anything. <br /><br />On dates, I've already ended up in restaurants with family friends at the other table. Sometimes, no matter how you try to avoid it, compartmentalizing dating life and everything else isn't possible. <br /><br />As for her yentatzing, the only option is to somehow constantly change the subject when she tries to pry. <br /><br />But how many times has this happened - that they show up at the exact time you're leaving? That would be an insane coinkidink.Princess Leahttp://frumanista.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-8451926327248407172011-04-04T10:13:25.371-04:002011-04-04T10:13:25.371-04:00Hmm...this sounds like a really tough situation. I...Hmm...this sounds like a really tough situation. I'm not sure what the solution is because every possibility I thought of would probably hurt her feelings.<br />I'd suggest speaking to a Rav or teacher (no joke) about this because it's a serious issue and can really end up embarrassing everyone involved.<br />(Let's hope that never happens, though)Sefardi Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03041724538794932296noreply@blogger.com