tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post4276677155284619284..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: What Works for Others.....Single on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-80779748346174762742011-06-30T23:39:42.219-04:002011-06-30T23:39:42.219-04:00There are different females I wish I had dated at ...There are different females I wish I had dated at a different stage of either my life or theirs.lawschooldrunkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06981455538460795016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-82847632812292786952011-06-28T18:28:11.981-04:002011-06-28T18:28:11.981-04:00That's crazy, but I was recently thinking this...That's crazy, but I was recently thinking this- a woman from my shul made a shidduch between a 27 and 28 year old, and she said it took 2 years before the families took the idea seriously. What a chaval. However, you're right, H' has a plan and perhaps had they tried it 2 years ago it would not have worked out. Same with your friend. When she revisited the guy she's engaged to, she had ___ months/years of additional experiences which changed her as a person. My mom always says that had she met my dad when she was 19/20, she would never have married him. Preferences change...cortihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06500543390043802580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-54233725862289027262011-06-28T12:10:01.287-04:002011-06-28T12:10:01.287-04:00So many things depend upon timing. They were perfe...So many things depend upon timing. They were perfect for each other now, and not then. <br /><br />Also, I resent how people constantly apply things that happen in others lives to mine. And they didn't even do it themselves! They tell me to go on singles events when their kids don't. They tell me to go out with a guy that they consider to be questionable. They tell me to go out, AGAIN, with a guy that I already went out with! <br /><br />AAAAH!PLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09350667776363447301noreply@blogger.com