tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post3524878724822073917..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: The New Year's WishSingle on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-56287599705809276492015-03-03T04:00:17.070-05:002015-03-03T04:00:17.070-05:00I just discovered your blog and I identify with th...I just discovered your blog and I identify with this post completely. I actually grew apart from many friends during my "older" (ahem, I got married at 29, 9 months ago) single years because they were treating me like I was dying of some terminal illness, when I was actually happy with my life. I had a job, a social life, freedom, and they complained about poop and crying babies all the time. I wasn't jealous (and still am not). Ugh. The system is so screwed up. I feel your pain.Elishevahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11664199691614525380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-5617258242684874322014-10-06T22:01:39.559-04:002014-10-06T22:01:39.559-04:00Anon-I meant to post this before Yom Tov, but got ...Anon-I meant to post this before Yom Tov, but got carried away. It's not that we get offended, obviously there are feelings to bear in mind and sensitivity. Just for a few minutes-before you give us your squeeze/look/wish, put yourselves in our shoes. Think: 'if I wouldn't yet be blessed with a child/husband/family/money, would I want someone to say/do that to me?' If you feel it's better to be said/done-then by all means go for it. If you feel that it's better to just 'think it' and daven for them without them knowing Kol HaKavod. All I'm asking is to just put yourselves in someone elses shoes for a few minutes....Single on the Scenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-47045613325185204292014-10-03T08:52:30.360-04:002014-10-03T08:52:30.360-04:00If we ignore your single status, you get offended....If we ignore your single status, you get offended. If we acknowledge your single status, you get offended. If we set you up with someone, he's a loser and a nebech and we should have known better. If we don't set you up, we're ignoring you. (See beginning of paragraph. Shampoo, rinse, repeat).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-22023908687793302392014-10-02T10:02:13.117-04:002014-10-02T10:02:13.117-04:00My sentiments exactly. A git gibensht yur! My sentiments exactly. A git gibensht yur! Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.com