tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post3203191155624662292..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: We're all in the Same BoatSingle on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-24499239136512329562013-01-03T09:33:43.203-05:002013-01-03T09:33:43.203-05:00Wait a sec, they came out wrong.
I meant to say ...Wait a sec, they came out wrong. <br /><br />I meant to say it is the so-called shidduch crisis. Because people think there is a crisis, they shove their kids into the dating scene way too early. <br /><br />The shidduch system and I are good friends, providing it is actually abiding by the laws established over the centuries. Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-2426137611953224012012-12-31T16:13:13.681-05:002012-12-31T16:13:13.681-05:00Blaming others rarely helps anything, and it may d...Blaming others rarely helps anything, and it may distract you from working to improve your situation. That’s why it’s called: “The Blame Game.”<br /><br />Our great and holy Torah teaches that: charity combined with sincere repentance and combined with humble sincere prayer recited is the solution to our problems.Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-74570331290909826902012-12-31T12:48:51.763-05:002012-12-31T12:48:51.763-05:00This so-called shidduch system is to blame.
Peop...This so-called shidduch system is to blame. <br /><br />People go around screaming there's a crisis, so what do parents think? My teenager has to get married, the sooner, the better, because if she waits around at all she may depreciate in value. <br /><br />It is a shame, because I truly believe that kids nowadays have to grow a little before they have kids themselves. <br /><br />As for them going to a "shadchan"? Also the "crisis"s fault. There are now many unqualified individuals claiming to be shadchanim, and since they usually make a point to stomp all over my dignity, I make a point not to bother with them. Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-66989443443449669392012-12-30T22:28:21.623-05:002012-12-30T22:28:21.623-05:00I suggest you recite the entire Sefer Tehillim eve...I suggest you recite the entire <i>Sefer Tehillim</i> every month for yourself.<br /><br />I also suggest that you recite additional <i>Tehillim</i> for others whenever possible.<br /><br />I recommend <i>The Metsudah Tehillim</i> by Rabbi Avrohom Davis.<br /><br />Also be careful to avoid words that are the spiritual equivalent of poison:<br />Slander, foul language, insults, and complaining.<br /><br />Every day say things like this:<br /><br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for the light and warmth of the sun.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for adequate food.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for adequate clothing.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for adequate shelter.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for adequate health.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for adequate money.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for the ability to walk normally.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for the ability to talk normally.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for the ability to eat normally.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for every breath I breathe.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for every drop of rain.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for every dollar I have.<br />THANK YOU <i>HASHEM</i> for relatives and friends <br />who care about me and help me.Mr. Cohenhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/DerechEmet/noreply@blogger.com