tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post2953736220583945843..comments2023-05-31T03:25:43.316-04:00Comments on Surfin the Shidduch Scene: The Abuse of "the Excuse"Single on the Scenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848405298234990241noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959111291997881512.post-51648980450373715552013-11-06T04:26:33.435-05:002013-11-06T04:26:33.435-05:00Hey, sorry for your bad experiences, does not soun...Hey, sorry for your bad experiences, does not sound nice at all, not very frum or even simple Jewish. I've had a fair share of Shadchan interactions, surely in this day and age the Shadchan should give you his number (or vice versa)? I'm not sure I would be prepared to go out with someone whom I had no way of direct contact (and ideally a name I can google)..<br /><br />Please do not lose faith, you will find an open honest guy and as for the excuses.. forget them and move on. I think it's a numbers game, and the best you can do is stick to the things you know best, be honest and be kind and be loving. Yarmi Boyhttp://yarmi.orgnoreply@blogger.com